gender in Japan

Japan is a very modern society, but still keeps its traditional culture. I am a quarter Japanese and I have one great aunt who is Japanese. In Japan the males are by far the more dominant. Although women are allowed to partake in government. In my great aunt and Uncle's home, my uncle is the boss and my aunt is the worker in the house. me being a boy she does not let me help out in the kitchen or other house chores. So she is queen of the kitchen and other labor centered areas around the house. the wife also does all of the child raising and the father is hardly home at all. So around the house it is all about the mother, but the father brings in the income. On occasion the mother brings in income too